She was my best company throughout my nine months of pregnancy..She used to keep me occupied all the time ,she was the one who spoke constantly with the baby growing inside my womb..yes my 4year old daughter was my best companion while i was expecting her sibling. Our parents or grandparents always say that your elder child will always throw tantrums or will start feeling insecure while you are expecting your second baby.But for me it wasn't really that difficult . Yes there were times when she wasnt quiet,,she needed for everything ,but this is what is expected from a 4year old kid when she gets to learn that she has to share her parnets with an another kid..but was able to manage her calmly.Throughout my pregnancy my complete focus was on making her feel haapy about the new babys arrival..She used to come with me for all my check ups and sonography scans and was really happy to see the baby on computer screen. . As time went her insecurity turned into happiness and was eagelry waiting for the baby to arrive soon.. Soon i delieverd a cute little daughter again amd my elder daughter's happiness had no boundaries especialy when people say she looks just like her sister.Slowly slowly she got involved in helping me with all the work related to the baby. I had certain queries coming up from her while i was breastfeeding my little one but rather avoiding her questions i made her explained what it is about .. I think we need to understand kids to make them undersatand ,we cannot expect kids to understand thungs by themselves othrwise they wouldnt have been called kids.